You cannot experience that vision without your partner, so it takes both of you doing everything you can to make it real, regardless of what
the other person is doing (note: assumes no abuse/ violence). One of the things a vision does is help you stay focused. Remembering the vision helps when conflict arises. It keeps the focus on the prize as opposed to who might win a particular argument or successfully defend a position. Ephesians 5:21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
Thinking of each other as a team, going after the same goal is important to the success of your relationship. Having just finished the Olympics, just think how a successful relay team or volleyball team relies on one another. Each will bring a different set of skills, but if one member judges another member to be less “worthy” and therefore determines to put less effort into winning, the team will surely have no success. Colossians 3:23 And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;
So, create a vision with your partner and use it to keep the team on track and you will experience many successes together.